Quick Reflection Moment

Last night during reflection, Emerson, our guide for the week from Cedepco, shared something I would like to always remember. One of the Oakhurst youths was crying in memory of her grandmother who recently passed. I don't often know what to do when people cry. Sometimes I want to hug them, sometimes I want to talk to them or pray with them, sometimes I think it's best to just sit with them and be present. Regardless, I've never felt comfortable around someone crying. Emerson, who seems completely at ease with any emotion, began to tell a story. He said that his friend's uncle one day received a phone call and found out that he was a new grandfather. And so he was overjoyed and crying with happiness. Then, another phone call interrupted his celebration, and he found that his father had just died. He was crushed. His tears were now tears of pain and grief. Emerson concluded the story saying that we must always remember that we all have two hands: one is for receiving and taking, while the other is for giving and letting go. I am very thankful to have received this story.